Your partner will disappoint you (and that’s okay)

“You are my everything. 😍”

It’s a sweet, romantic saying. But it contributes to the fallacy that a romantic partner can or should complete us.

Healthy, happy marriages and romantic partnerships are founded in high complementarity, but are not a perfect match.

When choosing a spouse/partner, expect to have to settle on some points. Most people cannot be everything we want - and even need - them to be.

What are your non-negotiables (things you’re not willing to settle on)? What good things are you willing to give up in pursuit of your non-negotiables?

Make sure you look for someone who treats you with respect and safety, especially when they are angry with you. Make sure you treat others that way, too.

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